About Me
I did illicit drugs from the time I was 11yrs to 40yrs old. I attribute my health problems (past & present) vastly to that. I have Degenerative Joint disease, Fibro Myalgia, Osteo Arthritis, Hep C, Chronic Fatigue Syndrome & Epstein Barr viris. I had cervical cancer in 1997-'98. I had a partial Hysterectomy followed by 3 months of radiation treatments that Ulcerated my Colon. I take very strong pain medication to make my daily life as pain free as possible. Because of my drug abuse history I have someone who dispenses them to me on a daily basis since I know for sure if I was in charge of them I would abuse them & things would be alot more of a mess for me & my loved ones physically & mentally. I also have PTSD due to both childhood & adulthood abuses from others. Considering all of this I feel pretty amazing because I am still a really neat person. OK that's the medical junk...... Now for some info about me in general............
I am a 49yr. old woman who is easy going and non-judgmental. I am a born-again Christian. I like people of all race, creed, culture, color or sexual orientation. I am straight and single. I am of Italian, Portuguese and Hawaiian descent. I have three kids; Sarah; 28 (and happily married to Jack Ell), Ben;24, and Rachael;20. None of them live with me. I'm outgoing. I've a great sense of humor,and I believe that's what keeps me going. I have experienced many kinds of situations and types of people and can get along in most circumstances. I have tattoos & plan to get more. I like the outdoors i.e.; camping, swimming, boating, gardening and more! I am looking to experience new things and new people. I have had a very hard life but don't carry it around as baggage or a chip on my shoulder. I love music. There are very few types of music I probably don't or wouldn't like. I am not employed. I am on permanent disability (SSI). I have health (& pain) issues that I believe I handle pretty well and try not to let them get in the way of having fun as often as I'm able. I try not to talk about them a lot, as that is depressing. But, I am up front about them & feel it's important that people I meet & get to know are aware of those limitations. (sometimes more/or less limiting than others) I love to ride motorcycles. Especially Harleys. I also LOVE classic cars & trucks. I don't do hard drugs and won't hang out with people who do. I like sports; especially football; and would love to go to some games. I like Sacramento KINGS basketball. I like to go to baseball games, not so much watch them on TV. I've never golfed but would like to try. I like to fish. I'm a decent cook but, I'm not that crazy about cooking. Some of my physical limitations make it hard to maintain a clean house all the time. I am extremely honest. I believe that it's impossible to have genuine relationships of any kind if I'm dishonest about who/how I am. I'm not interested in in-genuine relationships. I don't want to waste time with phony people. I'm very eclectic and versatile. I've been many things from practically a missionary to practically a mercenary. I am not vain or self-absorbed. Neither am I insecure. I've learned a lot in life about relationships, I've mostly learned a lot about myself.
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