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When we hear about another random act
of violence, our first response is usually to pray away the
pain or pray that this will never happen again.
But how can we pray beyond the fear and
shock, beyond the most obvious needs, for the issues of the
kingdom? Below are prayer points that were originally written
by Pray! staff, the morning after the September 15,
1999 church
shooting at Wedgwood Baptist Church in Fort Worth, Texas.
Once again, as a nation, from a human
perspective we are unable to make sense of the horrific situation
we are in. We hope that they will act as a springboard for
your own prayer in the wake of tragedies that defy human understanding
and are becoming more frequent.
Praise
Though it is difficult, start with praise.
Focus on God's character.
- Praise God that He is sovereign, that
He has ultimate control over all, and that nothing takes
Him by surprise (Is. 45:5-7).
Petition/Intercession
- Ask God to use this situation to bring
unprecedented spiritual openness to people affected by the
tragedy, and ask Him to show His face to them.
- Ask God to bless the ministry that
will be thrust upon the church or community affected by
the tragedy. Ask Him to empower them with a powerful witness
when they are called upon to speak about or reflect on the
situation.
- Ask God to stand against the enemy's
attempts to make families experience unresolved anger or
guilt over the loss of loved ones.
- Ask God to focus the minds of public
officials on the need for prayer and to provide people who
will continue to pray for the situation.
- Ask God to equip leaders who will
be called upon to mentor and minister to people in the aftermath
of tragedy (Heb. 13:20-21).
- Ask God -- for yourself and others
-- for a passion and love for Christ that drive out fear
(1 Jn. 4:18).
Thanksgiving
- Thank God that the enemy has made
a tactical error, since martyrdom and persecution have always
strengthened the church, and that God will use for good
what Satan has intended for harm (Gen. 50:20-21).
- Thank God for the people who will
be drawn to seek God's face because the overwhelming nature
of the tragedy leaves them nowhere else to turn (Jon. 2:1-9).
- Thank God for a vivid reminder of
your own mortality and vulnerability, asking Him to prepare
your heart and spirit for a faithful response when you are
faced with
tragedy.
Sandra
Higley, Lani Hinkle. Pray
Nov/Dec 1999.
Compassion
and Revenge
The terror in New York and Washington
forces you to choose your reaction consciously or unconsciously.
The violence that we saw today was the consequence of unconscious
choices -- choices driven by pain, fear, and desperation.
Who among us has not experienced pain, fear and desperation?
Who among us will not experience them in the future? The question
of whether they will determine your responses to the circumstances
of your life, no matter how painful, is critical, because
your future depends upon it.
The attacks on the World Trade Center and the Pentagon are
occasions of great significance. They are opportunities for
you to feel inside, to find those parts of yourself that are
in fear, and to make the decision to move forward in your
life without fear.
That is the challenge for each individual on this planet today.
The pursuit of external power - the ability to manipulate
and control - creates only violence and destruction. The painful
events in New York and Washington are living examples of that
reality.
The causal chain that created this violence is one in which
compassion and wisdom are absent. Are wisdom and compassion
present in you as you watch the television, and read the papers?
It is important to realize that you do not know all that came
to conclusion, or into karmic balance, as a result of these
events. Because you are not able to know all that can be known
about them, you are not in a position to judge them.
When you are able to look at the events of the Earth School
from this perspective, you will see clearly the central importance
of the role that you play in it. That role is this: It is
for you to decide what you will contribute to this world.
Many will be asking your opinion of these events. Each question
is an opportunity for you to contribute to the love that is
in the world or to the fear that is in the world. This is
the same opportunity that presents itself to you at each moment.
If you hate those who hate, you become like them. You add
to the violence and the destructive energy that now fills
our world. As you make the decision to see with clarity and
compassion, you will see that those who committed these acts
of violence were in extreme pain themselves, and that they
were fueled by the violent parts of ourselves - the parts
that judge without mercy, strike in anger, and rejoice in
the suffering of others.
They were our proxy representatives. If you can look with
compassion upon those who have suffered and those who have
committed acts of cruelty alike, then you will see that all
are suffering. The remedy for suffering is not to inflict
more suffering.
This is an opportunity for a massive expression of compassion.
It is also an opportunity for a massive expression of revenge.
Which world do you intend to live in -- a world of revenge
or a world of compassion?"
Submitted
by reader Gary Zukav
A few additional resources include the
following:
Coping with Emotions
after a Disaster
http://www.psychworks.com/PTSD%20response.htm
Managing Traumatic
Stress, American Psychological Association
http://www.apa.org
After a Disaster:
Steps You Can Take to Cope with a Stressful Situation
http://www.wright.edu/sopp/cps/TraumaticStress.html
& nbsp
The Child Survivor
of Traumatic Stress
http://users.umassmed.edu/Kenneth.Fletcher/kidsurv.html
Helping Children
After a Disaster: Facts for Families from the American Academy
of Child and Adolescent Psychiatry
http://www.aacap.org/
National Center for
PTSD has a large literature base:
http://www.ncptsd.org/
If you have something particularly useful
that we can circulate by e-mail to those on our various listservs,
please get it to us quickly.
The
Deeper Wound
As fate would have it, I was leaving New York on a jet flight
that took off 45 minutes before the unthinkable happened.
By the time we landed in Detroit, chaos had broken out. When
I grasped the fact that American security had broken down
so tragically, I couldn't respond at first. My wife and son
were also in the air on separate flights, one to Los Angeles,
one to San Diego.
My body went absolutely rigid with fear.
All I could think about was their safety, and it took several
hours before I found out that their flights had been diverted
and both were safe.
Strangely, when the good news came, my
body still felt that it had been hit by a truck. Of its own
accord it seemed to feel a far greater trauma that reached
out to the thousands who would not survive and the tens of
thousands who would survive only to live through months and
years of hell. And I asked myself, Why didn't I feel this
way last week? Why didn't my body go stiff during the bombing
of Iraq or Bosnia?
Around the world my horror and worry
are experienced every day. Mothers weep over horrendous loss,
civilians are bombed mercilessly, refugees are ripped from
any sense of home or homeland. Why did I not feel their anguish
enough to call a halt to it?
As we hear the calls for tightened American
security and a fierce military response to terrorism, it is
obvious that none of us has any answers. However, we feel
compelled to ask some questions. Everything has a cause, so
we have to ask, What was the root cause of this evil?
We must find out not superficially but
at the deepest level. There is no doubt that such evil is
alive all around the world and is even celebrated. Does this
evil grow from the suffering and anguish felt by people we
don't know and therefore ignore? Have they lived in this condition
for a long time? One assumes that whoever did this attack
feels implacable hatred for America. Why were we selected
to be the focus of suffering around the world?
All this hatred and anguish seems to
have religion at its basis. Isn't something terribly wrong
when jihads and wars develop in the name of God? Isn't God
invoked with hatred in Ireland, Sri Lanka, India, Pakistan,
Israel, Palestine, and even among the intolerant sects of
America? Can any military response make the slightest difference
in the underlying cause?
Is there not a deep wound at the heart
of humanity? If there is a deep wound, doesn't it affect everyone?
When generations of suffering respond with bombs, suicidal
attacks, and biological warfare, who first developed these
weapons? Who sells them? Who gave birth to the satanic technologies
now being turned against us? If all of us are wounded, will
revenge work?
Will punishment in any form toward anyone
solve the wound or aggravate it? Will an eye for an eye, a
tooth for a tooth, and limb for a limb, leave us all blind,
toothless and crippled?
Tribal warfare has been going on for
two thousand years and has now been magnified globally. Can
tribal warfare be brought to an end? Is patriotism and nationalism
even relevant anymore, or is this another form of tribalism?
What are you and I as persons going to
do about what is happening? Can we afford to let the deeper
wound fester any longer? Everyone is calling this an attack
on America, but is it not a rift in our collective soul? Isn't
this an attack on civilization from without that is also from
within?
When we have secured our safety once
more and cared for the wounded, after the period of shock
and mourning is over, it will be time for soul searching.
I only hope that these questions are confronted with the deepest
spiritual intent. None of us will feel safe again behind the
shield of military might and stockpiled arsenals.
There can be no safety until the root
cause is faced. In this moment of shock I don't think anyone
of us has the answers. It is imperative that we pray and offer
solace and help to each other. But if you and I are having
a single thought of violence or hatred against anyone in the
world at this moment, we are contributing to the wounding
of the world.
Love, Deepak
Additional
Prayers
Job 30:26-27
Yet when I hoped for good, evil came;
when I looked for light, then came darkness. The churning
inside me never stops; days of suffering confront me. (NIV)
Lord, give us faith in light of such tragedy and horror in
our midst.
Help us to remember this perspective from Philip
Yancey's Disappointment with God... "the outer circumstances...
will seem the real struggle...
But the more important battle, as shown in Job, takes place
inside us. Will we trust God? Job teaches us that at the moment
when faith is hardest and least likely, then faith is most
needed.
His struggle presents a glimpse of what the Bible elsewhere
spells out in detail: the remarkable truth that our choices
matter, not just to us and our own destiny, but, amazingly,
to God Himself and the universe He rules...
In short, God has granted to ordinary men and women the dignity
of participating in the Great Reversal which will restore
the cosmos to its pristine state... In the prologue, the scene
of The Wager establishes a darkly shining truth: Job -- and
you and I -- can join the struggle to reverse all that is
wrong with the universe. We can make a difference."
"Why does God let evil and pain so flagrantly exist,
even thrive, on this planet? Why does He let us do slowly
and blunderingly what He could do in an eyeblink?...He holds
back for our sakes. Re-creation involves us; we are, in fact,
at the center of His plan.
The Wager, the motive behind all human history, is to develop
us, not God. Our very existence announces to the powers in
the universe that restoration is under way. Every act of faith
by every one of the people of God is like the tolling of a
bell, and a faith like Job's reverberates throughout the universe."
(pp. 172-174)
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