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By
Dr. Carol Look, CSW, DCH
I have read more than 20 books on the subject of attracting abundance,
trying to figure out the trick to having ("manifesting")
more of what I want in my life. What I learned was that money is
just another form of energy, and that there is a particular VIBRATION
associated with abundance. While I understood the concepts, nothing
ever changed when I "applied" what I had learned. It was
not until I combined the book knowledge with EFT and the energy
of love and gratitude that I was able to change my limiting
beliefs, expand my comfort zones, neutralize my deserving
issues, direct my feelings and expand my prosperity
consciousness--all of which had been driving the results in
my life.
Using EFT, I was able to change my VIBRATION in my daily life around
money, worry, and the future, which in turn opened the door for
success and abundance.
Over the past few years, I have conducted seminars and some teleclass
series covering the topic "EFT for Success and Abundance."
The blocks and themes keep recurring, as do the progress reports
of people that persistently use tapping for abundance in their lives.
Below are some of the themes that need to be addressed.
Comfort Zones: When I first
started using EFT for success in my own life, I didn't "believe"
in comfort zones--what Gary [Gary Craig, the developer of EFT] refers
to as ceilings on your progress based on the "writing on your
walls." When I noticed my income for two years running was
exactly the same, I realized this was evidence of a comfort zone
operating in my financial life.
This may not seem strange unless you are a private practitioner
in the mental health field. There are so many variables--holidays
that fall on different days of the week, my own vacation time, clients'
vacation time, illness, referrals, the economic situation, etc.--that
it is virtually impossible to predict your annual income.
Two years in a row, despite all these variables, I made the exact
(within $1,000) same income working as a full-time private practitioner.
Once I used EFT to break through these comfort zones (after some
resistance of course) my income shot up over 20 percent the next
year. I had not raised my fee, had not done any advertising, and
the country's economic situation had in fact worsened. I used phrases
such as:
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"Even
though I don't dare raise my income, I deeply and completely
accept myself ...
"Even though I obviously have a block to earning more
than $XXX, I deeply and completely love and accept this
conflict."
"Even though I have trouble seeing myself earning
more than $XXX, I deeply and completely accept myself."
"Even though I don't feel safe making more than $XXX
because they'll be jealous, I deeply and completely accept
and love who I am."
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Limiting Beliefs: Dozens of
clients in my abundance classes have told me that they had siblings
who were seen as either "slow learners" or having some
form of "difficulty" in school. Some of these siblings
turned out to be brilliant while some are still struggling to this
day. The point is that my clients learned from their families "I'm
not supposed to shine" and that if they did shine, they
were taking attention away from their struggling sibling.
It didn't seem to matter if the sibling was older, younger, the
same sex or not. What mattered was that the parents compared the
two, and scolded the "fast learner" for looking good or
"showing off." The message was "don't succeed or
you'll hurt someone else."
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"Even
though I'm not supposed to shine because it will hurt my
sister, I deeply and completely accept my brilliance."
"Even though I will lose their approval if I do well,
I deeply and completely accept my talents."
"Even though it's not safe to succeed, I choose to
feel safe when I am doing what I love."
"Even though they don't feel comfortable when I succeed,
I deeply and completely accept myself anyway."
"Even though I'll never forget his scolding me when
I succeeded, I deeply and completely forgive myself be being
so fast."
"Even though I'm afraid I'll be rejected if I succeed
... "
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Other common limiting beliefs that block financial wealth are prejudices
against wealthy people. "Fran" told me she thought rich
people were "shallow and mean." Apparently her mother
had taught her this concept based on feelings of jealousy and a
scarring incident with a neighbor when growing up. Fran adopted
this belief, but was unaware that she could therefore never BE rich,
(one of THOSE PEOPLE) for if she became one, she would not only
be seen as shallow and mean (her assumption), but more importantly,
she would risk the deep disapproval of her mother (her deepest fear).
These prejudices about wealthy people come in all shapes and sizes.
They must be uncovered and treated with EFT if you want to improve
your financial situation.
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"Even
though I'm convinced ALL rich people are mean and shallow
... "
"Even though she'll judge me if I make more money
... "
"Even though I'm afraid to be successful because my
mother will reject me ... "
"Even though I'll be envied too much if I'm rich ...
"
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Deserving Issues: I have many
individual clients who feel guilty when they have desires to do
well financially. When I asked "Jeff" why, he said that
he already "had it good" because his father worked hard
to educate him and he was a superb athlete ... "why should
I take more away from other people?"
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(1)
The belief that his success would hurt someone else is a
mistake.
(2) The belief that there is a limited supply of abundance
is also, in my opinion, off base.
(3) As long as he thinks he has had "his share"
he will sabotage progress or inadvertently reject opportunities.
Jeff didn't feel deserving of financial success, and was
finally able to see a pattern of rejecting terrific opportunities
for advancement in his job. He realized he was working hard
to tread water, just making ends meet, much like friends
of his who struggled with comfort zone issues in sports.
"Even though I don't deserve any more, I've had enough,
I deeply and completely accept myself anyway."
"Even though my mother said we were lucky to have
what we had, I deeply ... "
"Even though I don't want to be selfish and take more
than my share, I accept and love myself for having desires."
"Even though my father scolded me for wanting more,
I deeply and completely ... "
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Prosperity Conciousness:
Whether you believe you don't have enough time, money, love
or success, the consciousness behind your belief will block you
from receiving financial abundance. Your level of belief exudes
a particular vibration. In energetic terms, the theory states
that your consciousness about abundance has a certain capacity;
you will receive exactly what your consciousness is capable of handling.
The good news is that your consciousness can be expanded to believe
there is enough to go around.
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"Even
though there was never enough money when I was a kid, I
deeply and completely accept my fears."
"Even though I remember the fight my parents had about
money, and I think money is bad, I deeply ... "
"Even though I'm afraid there won't be enough, so
I need to hold on tight, I deeply and completely accept
who I am.
"Even though she told me there wasn't enough, I choose
to believe there is enough now."
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Feelings: Do you feel rich?
If not in your bank account, do you at least feel rich in love or
compassion or some other way? My point is you can't get rich
if you feel poor. So you will need to find some way of FEELING
rich in your life. Notice the abundance in nature, or notice how
many clients you do have, or how many good friends are in your life.
However you do it, you must change the vibration you have
and feel wealthy on an emotional level.
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"Even
though my father said we would always be poor, I choose
to remember how much love I feel."
"Even though I feel poor and anxious about money,
I deeply and completely accept these fears."
"Even though my mother taught me it was better to
be poor, I love and accept her anyway."
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Combining EFT with the energy of love and gratitude has contributed
to huge payoffs in my life and the lives of my clients. EFT was
the missing piece all along. Believe in PLENTY ... THERE IS ENOUGH!
Reprinted
from Emotional
Freedom Techniques
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