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30 Simple Secrets to Happiness

What are you really looking for in life?                                               

Once you look deeper, beyond your desire for a bigger house or a fancier car, you will most likely discover that what you’re truly searching for is not more “stuff,” but more happiness, more joy.

It may seem some people are born with enjoyment for life programmed into their hardwiring, whereas for others finding happiness seems an elusive goal. But, like any programming, yours can be changed.

Here are just a few of the 30 simple tips that can help you rewrite your life program into one that is filled with joy.

1.      Experiment to find out what makes you happy. If you haven’t taken the time to explore what brings joy to your life on a regular basis, you may realize you don’t even know what brings you happiness anymore. If that’s the case, try out different things, including some you’ve never done before. The answers just might surprise you.

2.      Focus on gratitude. Incorporate a daily gratitude session where you identify something you are grateful for. You can express your gratitude in any number of ways: silently say “thank you,” call or email the person you want to thank, or devise your own gratitude ritual – maybe try out “The Gratitude Dance!

3.      Take time to savor life. Resolve to cut down on the rushing from one thing to the next – delegate or say no – to reduce your number of appointments and daily tasks.

4.      Stop watching and reading depressing news. In the beginning you may worry that you’ll miss something, but think about it – when was the last time you truly needed to know the things covered in the daily news. Being selective about the information you expose yourself to can have an incredible impact on your level of personal happiness.

5.      Laugh now! When you’re in the middle of a mess, look around you and realize the absurdity of the moment. Remind yourself that a year from now, no one will care, and you’ll probably be laughing about it anyway, so why wait? Laugh about it now!

Happiness is important for so many reasons, beyond the obvious fact that most people would prefer to be happy rather than not. There is little doubt about the powerful effects positive emotions can have on your physical health and well-being. At the same time, there is equally little doubt about the effects that negative emotions can have on you.

Happiness will not only protect your body from stressors that can lead to coronary heart disease, but it can even boost your immune system‘s ability to fight off the common cold.

But, I’ve realized that for many, “happiness” is far too nebulous a term. Do you struggle to define an activity that truly makes you happy? If so, I want to share with you a new definition that nearly everyone can easily grasp and apply.

“Happiness” can more accurately be identified by your brain as whatever gets you excited.

It is what makes you JUMP out of bed in the morning with eager anticipation to start your day. Once you identify that activity, whatever it is, you can start to focus on it, and structure you life to do more of that.

If you can become happier, you will help build a better world. If you can improve your ability to address stresses and negative emotions, you‘re more likely to be able to do the things that no one would claim are trivial. For me, this is easy. My mission is to catalyze the change of the entire fatally flawed health paradigm. I truly love what I do, and that is why "working" long hours every week continues to be a source of happiness in my life.

And, speaking of work, and hence money, is it true that money can’t bring you happiness?

I believe that to say that wealth can NEVER bring you happiness is too simple a statement, because there are a number of factors involved. Financial wealth, when achieved through providing appropriate value to your culture can provide enormous joy and satisfaction.

However, when you achieve wealth through mechanisms such as winning the lottery or being catapulted into the media spotlight, the value may not be entirely authentic, and thus the reward of wealth is completely disproportionate to your level of happiness. Many of today’s media celebrities exhibit this type of lottery winner effect, where their riches have absolutely no impact on their level of happiness.

But, essentially, it’s not the money in and of itself that brings either happiness or unhappiness, but rather it’s HOW your wealth is obtained that is the crux of the equation. 

With respect to happiness, financial wealth is a side effect of the journey to pursue it. But it is the journey itself that provides the joy and happiness. So if you cheat or take a shortcut, you will probably not achieve the happiness you seek.

Building positive emotions through humor is one of the most natural things you can do to bring joy to your work, and broaden your view of this wonderful world in which we live. So, when things go wrong, why not indulge in the instant gratification of laughing now, rather than later?

In my opinion, happiness isn‘t so much something you strive for but a spontaneous natural result of pursuing your God-given mission in life -- and following a natural lifestyle that allows your body to function at its highest possible level.

That is in large part what the Total Health Progam is all about.

Dumb Little Man

 


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samurai
[ Joined on 04/07 ] [ Posted on September 14, 2007 ]
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It is interesting to me, all of the Hollywood stars emerging and talking about their depression.  This illustrates the one thing that does not create happiness; wealth. 
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CSR
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  Mercola
Yes, samurai, also if you take a moment to listen to any of the "pop" songs today, they are all about angst and depression and misery. I think part of the problem is that many people today get caught up in the things that the article initially describes: wealth, possessions, etc., and they just don't have a sense of purpose because these are like the empty calories of life--they temporarily satisfy, but do more harm than good in the end.
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Reesacat
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  Mercola
Well Said, Samurai!
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Russ Bianchi
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  Mercola
"No One On Their Death Bed Wished They Had Spent An Extra Hour At The Office."   Peter Lynch

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Dr. Mercola
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  Mercola
I don't believe using celebrities as an example proves your point at all as there are far more factors involved.  Wealth achieved through providing appropriate value to the culture can provide enormous joy and satisfaction.

However when it is achieved through mechanisms such as winning the lottery or being a media star, the value is not authentic and thus the wealth reward is absolutely disproportionate to the happiness achieved. So in media celebrities you see far more of the lottery winner effect.

So It is NOT wealth but how the wealth that is obtained that is the crux of the equation. 

With respect to happiness the wealth is a side effect of the journey to pursue it.  THAT is what provides the joy and happiness. So if you cheat and take a shortcut you will not achieve the happiness you seek.
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maggie36
[ Joined on 06/06 ]  [ Posted on October 2, 2007]
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  Mercola

As stated...find what makes you happy!My son thought money would make him happy and he worked diligently to achive his goals.He loves fishing and as he told me..fishing is peaceful, it centers me.After he bought his dream home, he bought a top of the line Bass boat, hoping to get into the competitive field of Bass fishing, thereby making money from winnning. Well, he didn't have the time that was needed to compete..much to his dismay. So, he made another choice, thinking..I'll go after the the big fish, Tuna off of Montauk,LI, NY. He turned in the Bass boat and got a sea worthy boat, costing five times more than the Bass boat.Still following his "dream". He dam near lost his life off Block Island, as the sea swells got higher and the Coast Guard had to tow him in.

He turned his energy back into making MORE money, thinking, more money would give him the opportunity to do the thing he loved doing...fishing!BUT he got caught up in "acting as if, he was one of the Forbes 500".Needless to say, it became his down fall! One day he woke up, his wife told him..we are in debt over our heads, what are you doing with all the money you make?Hmmmm? A six figure income.

THAT remark shook him up, he came to his senses and is now trying to repair the damages. He may have to declare bankrupcty, may lose his dream house...so much for the "find something that makes you happy!"

Because he is "good" at what he does, head hunters were after him ALL the time, which gave him a sense of being invinceable.He was offered more and more money...one could say he got drunk on $$$. He lost ALL perspective! The only thing he could think about was "fishing" and being able to retire and fish BUT the money got in the way.

He fell into the Hollywood trap..fame means more money, more money when not used properly and NOT full filling..that which makes you happy, is a "witches concoction for dispair".

Mercola
  
Gray Stroke
[ Joined on 01/07 ]  [ Posted on October 2, 2007]
       
   
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  Mercola

I'd like to add to Dr. Mercola's comments. Yes lotto winners are large losers in the happiness area. Soon TV program is bringing out another reality show about those lucky few. So please don't fall for the propaganda, statistically lottery winners and other instant rich folks are very unhappy campers. Much it is written in Proverbs.

I'm presently reading Larry Winget's book Stop Whining and get a life. Man it's a blast and hits on the same theme as this one. What I'm learning is that if we read enough material on personal growth we will eventually encounter a few common theme's. Our personal happiness is doable god info again..... and I had a good laugh.....lol......

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Pat Ormsby
[ Joined on 06/06 ]  [ Posted on October 2, 2007]
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  Mercola

Regarding wealth, it long ago struck me that a lot of people I met in Siberia were "wealthier" than most of the harried people I know in Japan, not in monetary terms, but in terms of quality of existence: sturdy housing, fresh home-grown food, good friends, a sense of security and time to enjoy life.  Those things are out of reach of most of us, unless we make drastic revisions in our lifestyle choices.  I have heard that some cultures define wealth in terms of numbers of friends rather than material possessions.  I also learned a new definition of wealth from a priest recently:  the ability to take care of your own needs plus have something left over to give to others.  By his definition, a taxi driver I knew who died practically bankrupt after transporting handicapped people free-of-charge, was far wealthier than his sister who amassed a fortune, afraid to spend a penny of it on herself or others.  Under the priest's definition, practically anyone can be wealthy.  The first step is to free yourself of fear of poverty and act wealthy.  If you have no money, please consider what other resources you have and how you might be generous with them.

  
  
Alaskadude
[ Joined on 02/07 ] [ Posted on September 13, 2007 ]
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30 of anything sounds more complex than simple...

Someone correct me if I don't have this perfect but doesn't Proverbs say:

"He that would love life and see good days keep his tongue from evil and his lips from speaking guile"
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Russ Bianchi
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  Mercola
I particularly like #3, "COUNT YOUR BLESSINGS".
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Katee Roux
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  Mercola
I don't think they mean "do these 30 things to be happy," Alaskadude.  I think it was more of, "here are 30 things that contribute to happiness.  Give some a try!"

They're mostly simple things that we forget to do or remember.
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phillip.stern
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  Mercola

So where are the "30" Simple Secrets listed?  I only saw 5 in the article and no link to the remaining 25.  The first 5 secrets were so interesting I want to read the rest of them.

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Katee Roux
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If you click on the "dumb little man" it will take you there, Phillip.  Or www.dumblittleman.com/.../30-happiness-tips-program-your-life-for.html

Katee Roux

  
  
Patty D
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I just received a wav file via email that fits right in with this article called "The Seven Wonders of the World".  I have no clue how to post a wave file here, but if you can find it, it's great.
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Sheila C
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The only one I can't agree with is #27 - stop watching or reading the news.  I like to be informed about what is going on in the world.  But if it upsets you, by all means stop.  But if we all did this, Dr. Mercola would have quite a few less vital voters.
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Katee Roux
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