ROFL --- VERY FUNNY! Thanks ;)

Blowing in to the hole can kill a woman.  

If need a good cunnilingus guide I'd recommend Ian Kerner's "She Comes First".

seg - it's not really as bad as it sounds. You wouldnt even know you were "touched" when it's all said and done. Besides your wife will "embrace" you more than ever; my wife did...she became more "carefree" and her "offers [if you know what i mean] doubled...which works for me any day.

The real reason I had to [after having 2 boys] was because my wife always had issues with her monthly stuff while on the pill or on a patch. It messed her up big time...and i hated "double-bagging" for obvisous reaons. Once I got "snipped" and she was off all of that "toxic junk" her system has made a u-turn for the better and she is 100% healthier now.

Besides she carried 2 boys [now a 5yr old and 14 month old] - 18 mos of pregnancy; the least I could do was get snipped to fix everything instead of her having to "tie" her stuff up.

seg - You may change your mind on getting snipped...my husband got cut, tied and cauterized (sp?) as soon as we learned we were pregnant with our 5th.  AND, as I had had 5 c-sections...that was a sacrifice he willing made.  The SMARTY made his surgery date for the beginning of March Madness two years ago, took 3 days off work and planted himself on the couch in our rec room.  He was waited on hand and foot...watched hours/days worth of basketball, getting off the couch only to use the restroom.  He "rang the little bell" to have me change out the frozen bags of peas and now, as he never used baggies...and I never used BC for all obvious reasons...he is pleased to stay put til the very end. ;-)  He would recommend it to anyone!  :-)

seg - lol...really, not picking on you, but yet another confirmation from sedial...except her husband "milked" it really well... ;)

Once you read this, you may wish you hadn't had a vasectomy, or if you were considering one you may change your mind.

A team at Northwestern University in Illinois say men who have had a vasectomy may have an increased risk of developing a neurological condition called primary progressive aphasia, or PPA.

This rare type of dementia is characterised by a steady loss of language skills.

The researchers surveyed 47 men with the condition being treated at Northwestern's Cognitive Neurology and Alzheimer's Disease Center, as well as 57 men who did not have PPA, with an age range of 55 to 80.

www.medicinenet.com/.../art.asp

Smythe - here is an excerpt I read from the article you making reference of:

"We definitely aren't saying that having a vasectomy causes this condition or that men should not have vasectomies," researcher Sandra Weintraub, PhD, tells WebMD. "It is way too early for that. We need to do more research to understand this."

Obviously, they have more work to do before etching their reserch in stone. Also to add to that about approximately 2 decades ago, theycame up with another study linking prostate cancer to Black Men who had vasectomy. That sent shockwaves among Black Men who wanted the procedure, and those who already had it done. Close to the end of the '90s, a more validated and proven study comes out with the conclusion that dismissed the prior one as having no links in Black Men to prostate cancer. I am a young Black Man...but that's besides the point...

In my opinion...it's a trend with the medical society. Remember SIDS in infants? How many times have they given us the recommended sleeping positions for our infants to help avoid SIDS? I have 2 kids, almost 4 years apart and we were told differently with both kids when they were infants. Bottom line, I dont think they REALLY know why it REALLY happens.

I dont think I will ever regret my decision regardless. I did it so my wife will not suffer any longer - that means more to me than anything else. And I enjoy very well all the "perks" that comes with it in my bedroom ;)

How does one 'clean up the dump site'? I'd love to know - I was exposed to high levels of arsenic levels in our town's water, for years! Lots of people sick in our neighborhood. And sadly, esp. the infants. With a lot of publicity we got the water cleaned up. But how to clear out the aftermath.

And probably why we could never conceive, despite both of us getting teated, and passing.

Thanks for bringing that up. I found it extremely interesting.

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I AM LOST BIG TIME - I am still trying to understand this whole "smell/scent/chemical" issue everyone is going on about. Kaite B talks about B.O for instance. Of course no "sane or sound" person would like to be with someone with any type of B.O; it's a turn off even for men.

But I dont think this is really what the article was about though...unless I am wrong or interpreting it differently. From what I gathered, these "scents/smells" we pick up we are not even aware of. Having said that, it means one could be attracted to someone with B.O until the more obvious smell - the one we are conscious of - overrides that subtle "chemical scent" our subconscious picked up initiall to give the person that attraction in the first place.

I a writing this under NutritionalHealingCenters so maybe I can get a more conrete explanation from him/her.

There must be something wrong with me - because I thought I "know" the kind of wonam I am attracted to coming from 20 feet away.

On a different note, Alex123 - sorry to hear about your issue; that's a real issue as opposed to this whole "scent" thing most have commented on. Iwish you luck and hope that you get better help/advice from NutritionalHealingCenters that will also extend to the folks in your neighborhood. GOOD LUCK!!!

This seems to make logical sense.  We have some younger friends who have tried and tried to get pregnant and over the last 3-4 years, nothing.  So they've given up and trusting that if the Lord wants them pregnant it will happen.  What's sad is I've tried suggesting alternative stuff and they aren't open to it anymore.  They've tried the traditional medical establishment and it didn't help.  Oh how I wish people would give alternative medicine a chance before running to the doctor.

This is to Alex123 who posted on 4/9 the question of how to "clean up" your body of environmental toxins. Poisons such as arsenic may remain in our bodies in the form of toxic metal residues for many years or for an entire lifetime, unless the affected person undergoes a prolonged and expensive chelation procedure. But wait...there is a better way! It has been found that eating the leaves of raw Cilantro (aka Chinese Parsley) begins flushing toxic metal residues harmlessly out of the body via the urine within one hour after consumption! This has been proven in labratory studies for quite some time. I recommend that you purchase organically grown Cilantro. No other plant from the "parsley" family, or any other known plant, has this beneficial effect. Cilantro is popularly used as a garnish on Asian foods or in Mexican foods such as fresh tomato salsa. Wishing you better health, and bon apetite!

Women who bathe themselves in perfume turn off far more men than they attract. Personally, I'd rather smell natural scents/odors, even B.O. than perfumes.